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I think I am due a post to the journals so here I am. Right now I am watching True Blood on HBO. I am still following this show and not sure why. I guess I want to see what happens with it so it does succeed on that very basic level. It piques my plot-based curiosity. I do think they are a bit killing happy for the sake of killing and could draw some of the plots out more. Lost opportunities there.

I am heading off on vacation on Thursday to New Hampshire to see my mom and dad, my brother, niece and sister in law. I will also see my oldest friend from childhood for a few days too. I am looking forward to it. I don't know if any of you have elderly parents (I am sure some of you do) but I will be dealing with some of the issues inherent in that. My mom's driving skills are not what they should be. She has had 5 accidents in the last year or so. I am concerned about that. Me and my brother are going to have "a talk" with her about that. I anticipate that not going too well as it represents some loss of independence. Have to see how this all goes down. I don't think my brother should have to deal with this on his own so we will approach this together. That way it is fair. He deals with a lot of things with my parents as the sibling who lives close to them so I think I can help out with this. My dad is seven years older than my mom and has had zero accidents. Doing much better on that. He is steady eddy. Mom admits to the distracted driver thing and feeling rushed so wondering if adjusting timing on things might help. She has mainly fender benders but I worry still. Anyhoo. I will get some home cooking, have some good seafood and lobster and fried clams. Looking forward to all the East Coast goodness. Yessiree.

I saw a great movie this weekend. "The Way Way Back". Loved this movie. Kind of a departure for me in as it was not an action, sci fi epic or anything like that. Here is my FB posting on this one - a touching coming of age movie set in a Massachusetts vacation town. Water park, partying and a wonderfully humorous performance by Sam Rockwell. Lots of laughs and joy in the awkwardness of life. So much to love about this film. Highly recommend.

Work is chugging along. It will be gearing up for Fall pretty soon there. I did not get the job I interviewed for. I am pretty sure I was low balled on the salary as I wanted the top of their range there. Someone probably snaked in at the middle of the range and they went for that. Oh well. Would have been nice to move for that but I will keep looking. I was strongly in contention for the position so I know I have the skill set for that. I will keep plugging around and apply etc. Don't mention this paragraph on FB at all. This is journal only, please.

I am sure there is more but I cannot think of it. I am glad I have a short week this week. I fly out on an early flight on Thurs morning. I have to wake up for a 5:00 am shuttle. Egads. Killer.

I hope all is well with you where you are and that your summer is going well. Cheers!

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Date: 2013-08-05 03:45 am (UTC)
ext_36740: (jai plane chick)
From: [identity profile] jaiden-s.livejournal.com
I'm sorry about the job, but I think you'll get something soon. You're too good not to.

Have fun on your vaycay. Ironically, I'll be out your way while you're back east. :)

Date: 2013-08-05 04:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] phyncke.livejournal.com
I have to keep looking. And aww. I cannot believe I will miss you. Another wine trip?

Date: 2013-08-05 03:56 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nienna-weeper.livejournal.com
Good luck with your mom... I've been there. Not easy, but necessary - *Hugs you*

Have some fun too, okay? ♥

Date: 2013-08-05 04:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] phyncke.livejournal.com
We have to figure it out. I anticipate my mom being really defensive about it. Oh well. Gotta get to it.

I will have fun. Lots of good will happen too. Thanks, boo!

Date: 2013-08-05 04:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] keiliss.livejournal.com
Sorry about the job, but the right one will come along. Sometimes it helps to have a few recent interviews under the belt anyhow, it gets you into interview mode for when you really need it.

I had the elderly driver thing with my dad and it was definitely not fun because he was convinced he was managing fine. Just need to be understanding but firm. If you can help her find ways to structure her time on the road it'd be great but it's harder to learn new habits when you're older.

Have a wonderful visit back home *hugs*

Date: 2013-08-06 01:09 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] phyncke.livejournal.com
I am always up for keeping my interview skills sharp so that is a bonus.

My mom is a bit tough to deal with so I am not looking forward to that. She gets angry and upset so will see how it goes down. I think with two of us she will have to listen. Augh.

I am looking forward to time on the east coast and seeing family and friends.

Date: 2013-08-05 07:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] luin77.livejournal.com
I am sorry about the job, but I am sure something very awesome will come your way! :)

Good luck with your mom. *hugs*

And have so much fun at home! :)

Date: 2013-08-06 01:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] phyncke.livejournal.com
I will keep looking - have to make things happen on the job thing. Yeppers. Thanks tho!

Will see how it goes with my mom. She does not take things well.

I am looking forward to going back. Yay!

Date: 2013-08-06 05:34 am (UTC)
ext_14933: (Craig - Clouds)
From: [identity profile] anorienparker.livejournal.com
Enjoy your trip and I hope all goes well with your mom!

*hugs*

Date: 2013-08-07 05:17 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stephmariemarsh.livejournal.com
have fun with your family Jane!! :) Yeah I'm sure the talk with your mom about driving won't go as smoothly but I'm sure hopefully she'll see yours and your brother's points.. I'd write more but I'm so exhausted just got home from work but have fun :) Can't wait to hear all about it!
*hugs*

Date: 2013-08-07 02:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] phyncke.livejournal.com
Thanks for commenting when you are so tired. Will see how it goes with my mom. Fun fun. I am looking forward to time with family and friends there. :)

Date: 2013-08-07 02:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chaotic-binky.livejournal.com
Have a great time!

Date: 2013-08-07 03:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] phyncke.livejournal.com
Thanks, darling! I am sure it will be fun and interesting. Never dull in my family!

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