Getting real...
Mar. 12th, 2013 07:57 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
phynckeI guess in light of the QAF thing and that issue, I should get real but I don't reveal all that many details that can actually pinpoint me online as I don't believe in that. I am an event planner, fan fic writing, elf-Tolkien loving kind of person. I try not to link with my actual identity so as to keep my slash writing tendencies away from my FB account and the real world. I don't feel that I really misrepresent myself as I am Phyncke and Phyncke I am. I am a middle aged female from the Bay Area. That is about all you are going to get. Along with my thoughts and feelings as expressed here in this journal. I have dabbled in the Terminator fandom but always used my journal constructed name as my pen name.
Not very dramatic but I am not making people up. That takes a lot of energy that I don't have. We all have a story about people that have done this and I am sure that it will happen again. This is the nature of the internet where people can use smoke and mirrors and be who they want to be and not who they really are. I guess that is the fantasy.
Anyhoo. This is it, my getting real post. This is it, that's all you get. :P
Not very dramatic but I am not making people up. That takes a lot of energy that I don't have. We all have a story about people that have done this and I am sure that it will happen again. This is the nature of the internet where people can use smoke and mirrors and be who they want to be and not who they really are. I guess that is the fantasy.
Anyhoo. This is it, my getting real post. This is it, that's all you get. :P
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Date: 2013-03-13 03:37 am (UTC)~the 16 year old groupie
XXXOOO
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Date: 2013-03-13 03:40 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-03-13 10:33 am (UTC)Do I want to know? Is someone being an ass towards you? If so... *grrrr*
*hugs*
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Date: 2013-03-14 04:32 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-03-14 03:59 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-03-14 08:07 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-03-13 10:09 pm (UTC)I know you are realz.
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Date: 2013-03-14 04:32 am (UTC)I know - it reminded me of some fandom stuff. Yes indeed.
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Date: 2013-03-14 01:23 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-03-14 04:33 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-03-14 06:46 am (UTC)but then again I learned that I'm not the same person online than I am in real life, since I'm different when I'm actually meeting with people. *shrug* I don't know.
but I haven't heard about this QAF thing, just read what you wrote in the other comments. I'm always surprised how people can start a relationship with a fake personality. like... I would need to at least have a video chat with someone I have a relationship with...
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Date: 2013-03-14 08:06 pm (UTC)Chat rooms are also a different thing. I have done those though they made me nervous so I stopped. I don't like them.
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Date: 2013-03-15 05:34 am (UTC)when the internet was still pretty new there wasn't much else to do than chats. but it wasn't really my thing, so I'm not really missing it.
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Date: 2013-03-27 05:29 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2013-03-27 08:54 pm (UTC)